Let's talk about change.
People change and grow and leave.
Friends drift apart. They come, they go.
They do things for themselves, to make themselves a better person.
They do things for others, to try and be who the other wants them to be.
In this process, we lose touch with why that person was our friend to begin with.
And all of a sudden, we don't even speak to them anymore.
And we are angry. They changed. They left us. They betrayed us.
But when we look at ourselves, we never think we change for the worse.
I don't think I have changed.
Maybe I have. Maybe I haven't.
When I am still friends with my two best friends from high school,
I can hardly think I am that different.
But the rest of my friends, they are not the same.
I don't have 'girl friends' at school.
Not that girl you go everywhere with.
I've lost that.
See above.
My friends are boys.
And I love them to death.
But it is not the same.
And then I look at those who have changed for me.
When you change for someone, it should always be for the better.
If it is not for the better, one shouldn't change.
Standing by when things are hard.
Learning to accept who I am.
Loving who I am.
Picking me up when I stumble.
It is those people who matter.
Not those who let you fall by the wayside.
Not those who change and abandon friends.
Keep those who care close by.
Don't let them get far.
Accept.
Love.
Believe.
